What’s Belly Fat Got To Do With Food Sensitivities?

Wow, what a week. I did my very first webinar last Saturday, thank you very much to those who were there. I’m happy to say I didn’t muck up the technology! Here’s some of the feedback:

“Awesome info.”

“I have just listened to the webinar session, and I have to let you know it was absolutely FANTASTIC!!!  I have taken notes, and will put them into action.”

“It was really excellent! The subject matter and presentation. Also, loved the client stories. I think my sisters would be very interested to watch the recording, too.“

The webinar was specifically for smart women approaching 50 (shhh!) and the topic was, “How to Have Peace of Mind Around Food And Curb Your Cravings Without Depending On Willpower.” If it interests you at all to pick up some useful information that you can apply to your everyday which will make a difference, here’s the link to the webinar replay. I don’t know how long this replay will be up for, and this is the only time you’ll catch me on my very first webinar! Lol.

So, what have I been denying?

Well, one of the things I shared on the webinar was the idea of food sensitivities.

Food sensitivities are when your immune system has a response to the food you’re eating. It causes inflammation which can show up in numerous ways – a runny nose, puffy eyes, fatigue, bloating, general puffiness, foggy thinking, lack of concentration, lack of motivation, poor memory, itchy skin, eczema, a rumbly tummy… The trouble with food sensitivities is that they can be hard to track and because we often think that our symptoms are a “normal” part of life, that it’s just “something that one gets”, we don’t recognize that those symptoms could be the result of eating foods that don’t agree with us.

Inflammation is actually a healthy response from our immune system. We all know, for example, when we’ve sprained an ankle, and our ankle goes red, swells up, feels hot to the touch and is painful, that it’s a normal part of the healing process. It can also save our life. But the inflammation that comes from food sensitivities is often ongoing when we continue to eat those very foods that cause the inflammation in the first place. In other words, the inflammation becomes chronic. What’s more, it is often also at a low level, which enables us to either not notice it or ignore it.

Here’s the thing about inflammation. It can be what’s causing you to hold on to that excess weight. Who would have thought, right?

Simplifying it as much as possible, inflammation cause physiological stress in your body, which in turn causes your stress hormone, cortisol, to be elevated. This in turn raises your blood sugar levels, which then also raises the level of another hormone, insulin. It’s the interaction of these two hormones being chronically elevated that then causes your body to deposit fat around the middle and to hold on to it.

As this process continues and we pack more fat into the cells, the fat cells expand until they are “full up” and then, they themselves start to get inflamed, kicking off another cycle of inflammation.

And what is good for you to know is that there is increasing evidence that this kind of systemic inflammation plays a central role in other more serious conditions such as cardiovascular disease and diabetes.

So, how can you reduce inflammation?

Here’s the long and short of it.

  1. Discover if you have any food sensitivities and remove those foods temporarily in order to help your digestive system to heal. A good way to do this is by following an elimination protocol. Here’s one resource – Tom Malterre’s book (and if you happen to consult it, I’d personally leave out Phase 1).
  2. Significantly reduce or remove inflammatory foods from your diet, such as refined sugar, foods cooked at a high temperature, processed meats, artificial trans-fats which can be found in hydrogenated or partially hydrogenated vegetable oils, margarine, refined carbohydrates, excessive alcohol.
  3. Include as many anti-inflammatory foods in your meals as you can. These are foods that help your body to quell the fires of inflammation, such as green leafy vegetables, broccoli, coriander (cilantro), blueberries, turmeric, bone broth, foods that are rich in omega-3 fats like salmon, matcha tea.

Now that said, I really don’t like having to say, “Don’t eat this or that.” So, instead, I’m going to ask you to focus primarily on (3) and raise your awareness to be able to do (1). Then eat, eat and eat all the foods that are good for you – nutrient-dense, real, whole foods. You can start today, by upping your vegetable intake. Just add one or two more servings, or three! With some delicious butter!

There, that feels so very much better, doesn’t it? 😉

Make your next years your best years.

Stressed? Then you have to read this

Sometimes I think that there must be some kind of “blanket” that envelopes us all. That can be the only explanation for how it can sometimes seem as if everyone is going through the same thing, all at the same time. This week, so many people I know seem to have had a tough time, be they colleagues, friends or family.

Whether it’s been miscommunication or unwanted surprises, it’s all boiled down to the same thing – feeling horribly stressed and perhaps also overwhelmed.

We have a lot on our plates. We are asked to lean in, to be a breadwinner (if not also the main breadwinner), to be a leader, a mum, and the very many roles we take on in our lives. We are so good at multi-tasking, that we often overlook that we’ve taken on too much, and often forget to put ourselves into the picture.

If this is you, here’s what I really want for you to hear.

You deserve to put yourself first. Take time for yourself. Be kind, to yourself.

Sometimes, this might mean not striving 100% of the time, because 80% is perfect. When I was growing up, I remember hearing someone say that even God took a break on the seventh day. 🙂

Giving ourselves a break – physically, mentally and emotionally – is truly central to de-stressing. The funny thing is, getting tense and stressed is unconscious. It’s like breathing. It happens without you thinking about it at all. But destressing and relaxing is conscious, and what this means is that you have a choice. You can choose to turn relaxation on.

But because we are so busy, we often choose not to. We cut ourselves off from the neck down, ignoring our body’s messages that it needs a break, and we carry on, pushing through tiredness, hunger, anxiety, pain….

I’ve been there too. Not even that long ago, and because this week has been so stressful for so many people I know, I wanted to remind you, to invite you, to take a break and to destress.

The key is to begin to make it a habit – to build in reminders throughout the day to step back, if only for a moment, to take that break, and to bring your body into a more relaxed place. Over time, as you begin to tune back in to your body’s messages and you begin to notice your stress levels starting to rise, take that break. The best thing of all is that you can begin to reverse the impact that stress has had on your life.

Here are some things you can do when you take that break, to bring your body into a relaxed state. Pick and mix, if you’d like.

  1. Breathe the 6/7/8 – Sit upright in your seat, feet placed flat on the floor, relax your head, neck, shoulders, body, legs, hands, feet, fingers and toes. Now, take a deep breath for the count of 6, hold it for the count of 7 and then exhale for the count of 8. Repeat this 5 times. How do you feel now?
  2. Stand up, stretch and gently bend backwards. Hold for the count of 3. Repeat 3 times.
  3. Shrug and roll your shoulders a few times, then gently bend your neck backwards, stretch your neck and look up. Hold for the count of 7.
  4. Close your eyes, and visualize somewhere peaceful and serene – the beach, a meadow, the forest, a lake…the choice is yours. Allow your mind to calm down and watch any thoughts that may arise float off into the distance. You’ll know when to open your eyes again 😉
  5. Tense all your muscles at the same time – clench your fists, your buttocks, straighten your arms and your legs, squeeze your eyes, scrunch your face, and hold for the count of 5, then release. Repeat 3 times.

There. Just a few ideas. What others might you have?

And of course, there’s food. What you eat, how you eat and when you eat, all have an impact on your stress levels too. Remember:

  • Eat within ½ and hour to an hour of waking up.
  • Eat protein, healthy fat and fibre with every meal and snack.
  • Eat regularly throughout the day, to keep your blood sugar levels stable. Typically, this means breakfast, lunch, dinner and two snacks.
  • Minimise the junk food, refined carbs, caffeine and alcohol, which mess with your hormones.
  • Try out one of my favourite snacks – an orange with a teaspoon full of almond or cashew butter. Yum!

Not too much biochemistry this week, haha. Now, over to you. Let me know how you go.

Make your next years your best years.


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Do women in their 40’s and 50’s really have to lose their waistline?


What a week! The “busy bug” found me and bit me. 🙂 But I am otherwise very well, and I hope the same goes for you too.

After my last newsletter, Elaine wrote with a great question (thanks, Elaine). She asked, “Question about the weight gain around the middle. Is it unavoidable or even essential to have that belt of fat? A good friend of mine, who is also a qualified yoga teacher, told me that it is essential to have that belt of fat to retain or compensate for the lower level of oestrogen in the menopausal years. She said her gynae told her that. Say goodbye to the hourglass shape once past fertile years and accept the rectangle because it is nature’s way. True or false?”

Interestingly, this last weekend, one of the lectures on my degree was on “Nutritional Therapy and Healthy Aging.” Our lecturer asked if getting to 50 inevitably means you’ll get middle aged spread, and then proceeded to show us that that isn’t true, as she is living proof of that.

So why is it that we often see evidence of the thickening waistline, and an apparent shift in body shape from the pear (wide hips and thighs, with more weight below the waist, consisting of subcutaneous fat – that is, surface fat surrounding the muscle) to the apple (fat around the middle, and often, also around the organs, known as visceral fat)?

The short answer is, unbalanced hormones.

During our fertile years, oestrogen is produced by the ovaries, and as we get into our 40’s and 50’s, and we begin to stop ovulating, the body looks to its fat tissue to help with oestrogen production. Fat tissue contains an enzyme called aromatase, which converts testosterone to oestrogen, so this becomes an important element of our hormone mix, because oestrogen helps with other bodily changes too, such as slowing down postmenopausal bone loss (which itself also happens because of less oestrgen).

Overall, therefore, as we get into our 40’s and 50’s, we produce less oestrogen, and lower levels of oestrogen lead to a change in the distribution of fat, depositing more fat around the middle. This happens even without any weight gain.

The trouble is, fat around the middle (specifically visceral fat) is more metabolically active than subcutaneous fat, and increases the risk of heart disease, cancer, and diabetes. Plus, it is highly receptive to stress, and with ongoing stress being common in our modern lives, the depositing of and holding onto fat in this area is exacerbated. Why? Because with the ongoing stress, the body thinks that it’s going to need readily accessible fuel for “fight or flight”, which is the only way it knows how to interpret stress.

However, in our modern lives, we generally don’t fight or flee, but we do tend to have chronically elevated stress levels. So the body continues to circulate energy in our bloodstream that it means for fighting or fleeing, upsetting our balance of hormones further, and depositing even more fat around the middle for the ongoing stress it believes it needs it for. And now, it’s not just oestrogen, there’s also the interplay of cortisol and insulin.

So does it mean that we have to say goodbye to the hourglass shape and accept the rectangle, and place all the blame on oestrogen?

The bottom line is that our bodies are hugely complex systems, and it isn’t as simple as saying that oestrogen on its own makes you fat around the middle. Too much is just as problematic as too little, and it’ll also be relative to other hormones like progesterone. It’s really about hormonal balance.

That’s why it’s especially important for women in their 40’s and 50’s, to manage their stress levels, to eat the right foods that help to keep their hormones balanced, and to have the right kind of movement, and daily moderate movement, such as walking in particular – because this uses up the energy in the system that the body thinks it needs for the ongoing stress. See how it’s all inter-related?

I’m not a hormone expert. This is something I’m learning more and more about. But what I do know, is that I used to have much more belly fat, and it all came to a head when I started getting episodes of hot flushes, night sweats and insomnia. And when I changed my diet and lifestyle, some of my waist returned, and the hot flushes and night sweats went. The insomnia took a little longer.

Perhaps the most interesting thing of all, is that if I tip the balance on my eating habits for long enough that I cross the threshold, some of those symptoms come back. And the good news is, I know exactly what to do to get right back into balance again. Now, my next target is to get into optimal balance. I’ll keep you posted.

In the meantime, where are you at? Are there changes that you know would be beneficial for you to make, so that you can get some of your waistline back? How would that feel?

Make your next years your best years.


Hate exercise? I did

As I write to you, my legs feel like jelly. I have just finished a session with my personal trainer. It is the only way that works for me, to get the right kind of movement for me, at the right kind of level.

But there was a time when I wouldn’t even have done that. Because I simply didn’t want to move. At all.

It was when I read that book, that I realised that the many years of repeated dieting with the mistaken idea that I needed to exercise more and eat less to shed the extra pounds, had compounded things, and I had ended up with a body that didn’t want me to move.

Crash diets, counting calories – skimping on what were essential foods for my body and saving the calories for treats like Crunchie bars (fun sized ones, of course….except that I’d end up eating at least 6 of them) led to nutritional starvation.

And because of nutritional starvation, my body needed to conserve whatever nutrients I ate, to divert them to more essential bodily functions. In the context of things, movement wasn’t one of them, adding instead to the drain on the body’s already scarce resources.

When I realised the biochemistry of what was going on, I felt liberated. I could let go of all the “shoulds” I had been carrying around in relation to exercise! I could stop beating myself up and feeling bad about the fact that I didn’t particularly like moving. There was a reason for it, and what’s more, now I knew what to do. “All” I needed to focus on, was eating the right foods – nutrient-dense foods – that would allow my body to heal. And then, in time, my body would actually want to move! Of its own accord.

I can’t even begin to tell you how much of a relief that was. Perhaps if you’ve been doing the same thing, exercising more, eating less, and wondering why nothing seems to happen, other than that it takes more and more effort and willpower, and a lowering of your self-esteem, then you can relate.

Fast forward to two years later after having made changes to my nutrition, (that was how much I had damaged my metabolism through yo-yo dieting and not eating the right things), I actually found that I did want to move. I put on my shoes and walked down to the train station to meet Jeff. For the first time in countless years, I had just felt like a walk.

Now, I have to emphasise that between that book and my walk to the train station, I did do my best to move. I had taken part in 10,000 step a day challenges and I had engaged in movement regularly, but it was erratic, and it always needed an element of willpower. The walk to the station, however, was different. My body had wanted me to move. And so, I had wanted to move.

Since then, I have learnt that for women around the age of 50, exercise usually needs to take on a different profile than when we were in our 20s or 30s. Hormone fluctuations add physiological stress. Plus, the change in the mix of hormones means that we tend to gain weight around the middle. As if that isn’t enough to contend with, we also move into a different balance between “breaking down” and building up”, meaning that we lose muscle and bone, if we don’t take specific action to keep and/or build them.

What this means is that we want to balance of all those elements and include it as part of our activity, like the following:

  1. Moderate movement on a daily basis, such as walking
  2. Resistance or strength training, to help maintain and/or build muscle and bone strength and mass
  3. High Intensity Interval Training (HIIT), twice, perhaps 3 times a week, for fat burning
  4. Restorative and relaxing exercise, such as stretching and yoga, to help your body relax and counter the additional effects of stress

Now, here’s the thing. There was a time when even reading a list like that felt like too much to take on – except for the restorative and relaxing exercise. I get it. If you find yourself in that boat, start by making sure that you eat well – real foods, nutrient-dense foods. Nourish your body. And then find one piece of movement that you enjoy, and do that. Perhaps with a friend, if that helps you show up. Just as my personal trainer does for me. ☺ And I’ll let you into a secret… even then, my favourite moment is when I’m all done and she lets me lie on my back on the mat for a few moments, just before stretching – in the savasana yoga pose.

Now over to you. Eat well, rest well and move some.

Make your next years your best years.

These two themes kept coming up

The summer holidays are over. Uni has started again and the new term has started, and the greatest news is I’m still loving all the lectures! 🙂

The last one, just before I left to catch the plane from London back to Malaysia, was on Female & Male Health. OK, admittedly, that doesn’t sound so interesting. But here’s what’s so exciting about the topic. It’s all about understanding how our hormones work, how we metabolise them in our bodies and how they can go out of balance.

For those of us who are well into or even past our 40s, the symptoms of unbalanced hormones can show up as poor sleep, fatigue, irritability, hot flushes, night sweats, joint pain, itching skin, memory loss, low libido, weight gain and more. It’s no surprise then to wonder if our best years are behind us and to question, “Is this it? Is life downhill from here on out?”

That’s exactly how I felt when I was 48.

Now, here’s the thing. Because the degree I’m doing is based in Functional Medicine, we don’t much care about the label given to a condition as such. Instead, we look at where or how the body isn’t functioning optimally and then work to get to the underlying root cause of that imbalance. Yes, lab tests often help to guide us in understanding exactly where these imbalances are, so that they can be addressed. But, regardless of that, two themes kept coming up, again and again, in virtually everything we looked at, which don’t require lab tests.

These two themes were the very ones that helped me, after I read that book that transformed my perspective from always and secretly wanting to lose weight, to understanding that food “tells” our bodies what to do. Putting it another way, food actually communicates to the hormones in our bodies. This was a major light bulb moment for me. And it’s also exactly the lightbulbs that happen for my coaching clients.

Many of us have mistakenly placed all emphasis on calories and calories only, without knowing that it’s the quality of the food that makes the difference, because of the messages it carries. For example, eating certain foods tells your body to pile the weight on, and other foods tell your body to build muscle, while some foods put your body into physiological stress, and other foods can calm you down.

So, the foods that you choose have a direct impact on either helping to keep your hormones in balance or helping to kick them out of balance. Which means, that the foods you choose to eat can have a significant impact on your experience of those symptoms I mentioned above.

Now, remember how I said that in Functional Medicine, we look to get down to the root causes?

Drum roll now please, for the two themes, over which you actually have more control over than you might think and which go hand in hand. They are:

  1. Normalise weight
  2. Normalise blood sugar and insulin levels (insulin itself being a hormone)

It may not sound so sexy when put like that, I know. But if you really want to make a difference to your energy levels and how you feel in yourself and about yourself, then this means choosing foods that help you to do just that.

Here’s how in a nutshell

  • Scrap the C.R.A.P. – Caffeine, Refined sugar, Alcohol, Processed food. These throw your hormones out of balance.
  • Make protein and non-starchy vegetables the foundation of all your meals. There’s plenty to choose from – salmon, eggs, cottage cheese, tuna, chicken…. Protein will fill you up (protein takes longer to break down), and help to balance your blood sugar levels to ensure you have energy throughout the day without experiencing hunger pangs or sugar dips.
  • Add some healthy fat – olive oil, avocado, raw nuts and seeds… These help you to feel satisfied and are also needed by your body for optimal functioning.
  • Keep starches low, focusing on protein, non-starchy vegetables and healthy fats to keep you filled and satisfied.

Now, to get your ideas flowing as to the types of meals you can have from focusing on those 4 things, here’s a list to get you going.

Your starter list of meals to try:


  • Coconut cream of Carrot, Orange and Ginger Soup with Chicken garnished with almonds
  • Creamy Cauliflower and Salmon Soup with Roasted Crushed Pecans


  • Thai Style Chicken Salad with Cashews
  • Spicy Chicken Wings with Roast Cauliflower/Roast Peppers
  • Tuna Salad with Avocado
  • Chicken roasted in cumin and coconut oil, with quinoa, celery, apple and cashews/almonds
  • Tuna, asparagus & orange
  • Prawn lettuce wrap – red peppers, cucumber, lettuce, thai dressing, chilli, coriander
  • Chicken with roasted cauliflower, sweet potato and caraway
  • Ground turkey fried in chilli and cumin, served with avocado, greek yogurt salsa, tomatoes and romaine lettuce

Breakfast, Lunch, Dinner

  • Red Curry Prawns/Fish Laksa with Basil/Coriander, Lime & Chilli
  • Salmon Cakes with Mango and Coriander Salsa
  • Simple Baked Salmon in Coconut Milk
  • Ginger & Sesame Baked Cod or Salmon with Bok Choy
  • Roast Chicken with Caraway, Fried Mushrooms and sugar snap peas
  • Stuffed Peppers with tuna, basil and pine nuts
  • Caraway, Sweet Potato and King Prawn Chowder – here’s the recipe
  • Beef Bourguinon (no added flour)
  • Steak with Herb Butter/Chimchurri
  • Roast butterfly of pork fillet with rosemary
  • Pan-grilled pork fillet in thyme and lemon served with apple and chilli slaw (cabbage & carrot) in yogurt, mustard and white wine vinegar dressing, plus coriander


  • Almond Butter & Celery
  • Apples and Turkey with Cheddar
  • Berries & Yogurt
  • Homemade Sunflower/Sesame/Almond Crackers
  • Easy-to-make Paleo Bread – Go on – give it a go!
  • Prosciutto & Pears
  • Chia Seed Pudding


Not a bad list, eh? And when you cook those meals and serve them up, many people don’t recognise that it’s actually healthy food, because it looks good and it tastes good.

Alright, maybe one of these days I’ll get my act together and post recipes and photographs. That said, documenting things really aren’t my strong point, so please don’t hold your breath, but feel free to remind me!

Now over to you. How will you change some of your food choices today?

Make your next years your best years.

I don’t think they knew about phytonutrients

Jeff and I were sitting in one of our local eateries – Yeast in Mid-Valley, KL. A young couple were sitting next to us, having brunch. At the end of their meal, we noticed their plates – cleaned out completely, except for…..the vegetables.

There, a pile that covered half their plate, the red radicchio, green curly endive, tomatoes, other leafy greens, carrots,… you get the picture, I wish I’d taken one. Some years ago, I wouldn’t have noticed. But since coming to understand the value of eating nutrient-dense foods, I was…well, gob-smacked.

Did they know and understand the value of the food they’d just left behind? They hadn’t just left a bunch of leaves on their plate, they’d left behind a whole load of valuable phytonutrients.

It’s these natural compounds that give plants their different and distinctive colours – green, red, blue, purple, yellow, orange, white – all the colours of the rainbow. Although not labelled as “essential” nutrients, you’d get sick if you didn’t have them. They encompass antioxidants, like lycopene, anthocyanin, beta-carotene, and other nutrients such as isothiocyanate found in cruciferous vegetables.

In fact, these phytochemicals are produced by the plant to protect it against environmental stressors, and when we eat them, they “tell” our bodies to adapt and prepare for those environmental stressors too, which is one of the reasons why it makes sense to eat local. Amazingly clever, don’t you think? It’s called “xenohormesis”.

Phytochemicals help boost the immune system, help the body get rid of toxins, stimulate the death of cancer cells and even promote healthy oestrogen metabolism, among other things. They’re also associated with reducing the risk of conditions such as diabetes, heart disease and cancer, as well as decreased risk of dementia or cognitive decline. And get this, the University of Otago also found that consumption of more fruits and vegetables was associated with greater flourishing in daily life.

So, are you getting your five-a-day? Actually, throw that straight out of the window! Why? Because it’s a public health message – meaning that it’s aimed at the lowest possible denominator at which it’s considered that people might be likely to implement it, not what’s optimal. If you really want to make a difference to your health, then aim for 8 or more servings of vegetables and 2 of fruit every day, in as many different colours as possible. Start where you’re at, and go from there, increasing your number of servings gradually until you get there.

It’s so totally worth it.

And here’s a really interesting article you might also like to check out – NY Times – Breeding The Nutrition Out Of Our Food



What a way to be reminded – self-care

I know. It’s been a while. It was late June, I was in the final throes of revision for my final Year 2 exams and it was all too much, and I stopped writing.

Now I can hardly believe that two whole months and some have passed by.

After an extraordinarily crazy month of May with being continually on the move and having hardly any rest and relaxation whatsoever, and then moving straight into the final run up to the exams at the start of July, I started to feel burnt out, to the extent that when the exams were over, I couldn’t bring myself to write. Truth be told, I couldn’t bring myself to do other things besides too. The many things I’d planned for after the exams, and had been looking forward to, didn’t make the light of day.

Not a great way to be reminded of the importance of self-care, but it was a good reminder.

Self-care is such an essential part of our well-being, and yet, it’s something that many, women in particular, forget about – whether it’s because we take on too much, don’t make the time, or feel guilty putting ourselves first.

We really can’t be there properly for others if we don’t fill ourselves up first. How can we be the best partner, wife, mum, and all those other roles we have, if we’re too tired, or too stressed, or too irritable? Not to mention the potential for adrenal fatigue, where the body becomes too worn out to function properly.

Taking just 20 minutes a day (and more, if you can) to spend some time outdoors, or do some deep breathing, or meditation, or dancing, or getting a massage, or cat nap can make a significant difference to your vitality. We know this, but we think we don’t have the time, so we push away the messages from our body and carry on, like that Duracell bunny.

But if we don’t make the time, our body will make us make the time.

Don’t do that. Take the time for self-care. Here, now, today. As the question goes, “If not now, then when?”

Make your next years your best years.



How Adult Coloring Is Bringing Sexy Back

A number of years ago, when I first came to coaching, I decided that I would follow my own advice to clients and take art classes, not for any other reason than to have fun. I found a small group of friends who were also up for it, and then, for 8 Saturdays in a row, we’d show up at Sheila’s (our art teacher’s) home.

We learned how to draw, we learned about perspective, color and the different mediums, from charcoal to acrylics to pastels to watercolor and more. For the first time in my life, my intention was not so that I could draw well or paint well or create a picture that I approved of (in other words, judged), but purely to enjoy something for the sake of it. It also helped me to become less critical of other people’s pieces of art.

But more than any of that, every Saturday morning, my friends and I would emerge from Sheila’s house as gleeful as children in kindergarten.

Now, you’ve probably seen the craze for adult coloring books. They topped bestseller lists in 2015 and it doesn’t look like it’s going to go away anytime soon. People love it! Why is that?

Well, it seems that coloring helps relieve stress, and we are living in a time of great stress. With constant changes in our roles in the world, how we view ourselves, and the frantic pace at which technology is developing, it probably comes as no surprise that a mindful, meditative task that focuses on repetitive movements helps relieve stress by forcing us to be present in the moment. It’s a form of waking meditation.

Further, the back and forth motion of coloring engages both sides of the brain, while turning off the part of the brain responsible for situational awareness (the frontal lobe). It satisfies the creative side of our minds which often may not get a look in and goes some way to explaining why it can be so relaxing.

It can also give us a sense of accomplishment when we finish the coloring in of a picture, and then it allows us to indulge in the gift of giving because they make fabulous personalized presents for friends and family. And let’s face it, being in a relaxed state is also a wonderful gift you can give both to others as well as yourself.

So How Exactly Is Adult Coloring Bringing Sexy Back?

It all has to do with cortisol.

But hold on, what exactly is cortisol? Well, cortisol is our “stress hormone”, produced in our adrenal glands.

It rises and falls in correlation to our circadian rhythms, rising in the early hours of the morning to help us wake up and get out of bed, and then falling again at night-time, helping us to go to sleep and stay asleep.

When faced with a stressful “fight or flight” challenge, cortisol is the hormone that kicks into action, bringing glucose into our bloodstream for energy needed by organs deemed critical for handling the stress, such as our brain, lungs, heart and skeletal muscle. At the same time, it shuts down functions such as reproduction, digestion and the immune system, which are deemed as non-essential to the situation at hand.

Sounds good, we think, except that our modern lives are filled with one stressor after another – ongoing pressures at work, over-doing it at the gym, not eating enough, the challenging conversation with your partner, lack of sleep, and on and on. What happens when an individual experiences ongoing stress without adequate coping strategies, cortisol levels remain high. It’s this chronic elevation of cortisol that has many potential repercussions. Here are some of them:

  • It causes a redistribution of fat from the buttocks and thighs to the abdomen
  • It can cause insulin resistance
  • It can cause fluid retention and high blood pressure
  • The immune system continues to be “down-regulated”, as well as your reproductive and digestive systems
  • It induces the breakdown of muscle, bone and connective tissues

Let’s put it another way.

  • You develop a pot belly, whether you’re a man or a woman. As a woman, you’ll lose your waist and shapely feminine figure and get fat around the middle.
  • You’ll increase the likelihood of becoming sick with conditions like diabetes, cardiovascular disease and fatty liver disease.
  • You’ll look puffy and bloated, weigh more and put your heart and kidneys under more stress.
  • You’ll catch more colds and infections, your fertility could be affected and you’ll get less nutrition from the food you eat, which could lead to food craving and weight gain.
  • You’ll lose muscle tone, look saggy and flabby, and set yourself up for osteoporosis. Not only that, you’ll find it immensely difficult to build muscle, no matter what your exercise or strength training routine.

Not sexy.

The bottom-line is that we do need cortisol, in just the right amounts and we don’t want it to be continually elevated. To recap, it is chronic stress without adequate coping or management strategies that lead to ongoing elevated levels of cortisol that does the damage.

“Make Art”

The good news is, “making art” can actually help to reduce our cortisol levels. What’s more, and can you believe this, researchers at the University of Turku in Finland actually ran a study that found that women with lower stress levels were perceived to be more attractive that those who were stressed out. This was also found by the University of Abertay Dundee in Scotland to be true about women finding men with lower cortisol levels more attractive. No need to have research to tell us that, I’m sure, we only have to look in the mirror or reflect on a day when we’ve been irritable and snapping at others to know that that’s not especially attractive.

See? That, is how adult coloring is bringing sexy back. 🙂 And I bet you never thought that adult coloring could have an impact on your health and fitness goals.

Have you ever tried adult coloring? Did you find that it helped you with relaxing and feeling good? Share with us. Come on over to the Facebook page and let us know.




Girija Kaimal, Kendra Ray & Juan Muniz (2016) Reduction of Cortisol Levels and Participants’ Responses Following Art Making, Art Therapy, 33:2, 74-80, DOI: 10.1080/07421656.2016.1166832

Jones D. (editor). Textbook of functional medicine. Gig Harbor, Wash: Institute of Functional Medicine; 2010.

Recipe: Chocolate Coconut Ice-Cream

Evidently it’s Chocolate Ice Cream Day today, June 7. Who knew?

I certainly didn’t. Did you? And anyway, do you care? Haha!

But I think it’s a good excuse to share a chocolate ice-cream recipe with you. I love this ice-cream because it’s so easy to make. Plus it’s healthy, because it contains protein, healthy fats and many valuable nutrients.

It’s dairy-free, egg-free, gluten-free, and preservative-free. However, it’s not sugar-free, as it uses honey as a sweetener, which, according to Nutrition Data, is 82% sugar by weight, with about half of that being fructose. But, here’s the thing – the recipe doesn’t use any old honey, but raw honey.

Raw honey contains trace amounts of vitamins and minerals, and also antioxidants. It also has anti-bacterial, and anti-fungal properties, and also possesses other properties that can support health. However, most honeys sold in the average supermarket are pasteurized and highly processed, to the extent that any potential benefits are lost, leaving only the sugar elements behind. So be sure to use raw honey in this recipe, to ensure that you are making a healthy version of the ice-cream.

If you’d like to read more about the differences between raw and processed honey, here is a great article from http://permaculturenews.org/2014/02/08/shocking-differences-raw-honey-processed-golden-honey-found-grocery-retailers/

Now back to the ice-cream. It also contains almond butter and coconut milk. Almond butter is a good source of protein, with one tablespoon containing about the same amount of protein as an ounce of meat, and it also has dietary fibre and other nutrients such as magnesium, vitamin E and iron. Coconut milk also has magnesium and iron, plus manganese, copper, phosphorus, and potassium. It is high in saturated fat that is mostly in the form of medium-chain fatty acids, which is easily used for energy. It also contains lauric acid which is anti-viral and anti-bacterial and may therefore help protect the body from infections.

The bottom-line is, if you’re going to eat an ice-cream, then this is the recipe for you. It’s delicious and it’s also quite rich in depth and flavor, so I find that I don’t need as large a serving in order to feel satisfied – perfect for a guiltless treat every now and again.

Ready for it? Here goes.

Chocolate Coconut Ice-Cream


1 can full-fat coconut milk (400g) – look for one without any additives or preservatives
1/4 cup raw honey (and ideally, organic)
1/4 cup unsweetened almond butter
2 tbsp unsweetened organic cocoa powder or cacao powder
1 tsp vanilla extract


Simply stir everything together using a whisk, freeze and then remove from the freezer and stir it up again every couple of hours or so. To serve, remove it from the freezer about 20 minutes beforehand to allow it to soften up sufficiently for scooping.

Well, as it’s National Chocolate Ice-Cream Day, I’m going to have some tonight with some fresh raspberries and a light sprinkling of toasted coconut. Like the photo? (Lol, we couldn’t wait for it to be ready so we had it as a summer iced soup dessert!)

Now, over to you. If you give this recipe a go, I’d love to hear what you think about it.



How Romantic Dinners Could Be Impacting Your Health And How To Handle It

Have you ever been to a restaurant where the lighting is so dim that you can hardly read the menu?

Then there are those restaurants that are so poorly lit that they even have to provide reading lights along with their menus. So annoying!

Now new research reports that we are 16 to 24% more likely to order healthy foods when in a well-lit room, compared to when in a dimly lit room. Oh goodness, could romantic dinners actually be impacting your health?

The research points to evidence that the level of lighting affects our level of mental alertness, and therefore the choices we make. The brighter the room, the more alert we are, and the less likely we are to trade-off between the short-term benefits of taste/pleasure and the longer-term benefits of health/wellbeing.

This is biochemistry at work.

Overall, ambient light influences physiological reactions in terms of melatonin production, core body temperature, heart rate, and cortisol production, all of which are correlated with alertness levels.

What’s more, sales records show that those in dimly lit rooms ordered 39% more calories! (Not that we are into counting calories per se).

On the flip side, however, a more dimly lit ambience lends itself to our relaxing more, eating more slowly, even eating less and enjoying the food more. So what gives?

Here’s the rub. The research also stated that choosing between healthy and unhealthy options essentially force us to choose between options that appeal to the head (healthy options) and those that appeal to the heart (unhealthy options). Those of us who have walked that well-worn path of dieting are only too familiar with this – the battle between head and heart, the battle between willpower and desire.

You’ll most likely have already heard or read some tips on how to handle eating out – tips like, take a look at the menu for the restaurant you’ll be visiting beforehand and decide what you’re going to order, so that you’ll be less likely to end up eating something less healthy instead. Or, eat before you head out, so you’re not going to feel as hungry.

But these tips don’t help you to sort out the root cause and to align head and heart. Instead, they mostly satisfy your head and not your heart, and then the chances are that you’ll come away feeling less than satisfied and end up eating something else that’s even more unhealthy to plug that gap of dissatisfaction.

If you’re a chronic dieter, then you know exactly what I mean.

We need to appease both head and heart, not cause a conflict.

The good news is that there is a way to align both head and heart. You don’t have to have an argument with yourself each time you’re faced with food. You can have peace of mind and you can actually have your piece of cake and eat it – literally.

And it starts way before you ever set foot in a restaurant, romantic lighting or not.

Food means many things to each of us. It can mean a whole range of emotions – guilt, happiness, celebration, judgment, punishment, reward, family, friends, comfort – and it can even speak to your identity – I’m the one with the sweet tooth, I’m the one who always has desserts, I’m the one who loves crisps/chips. It’s also our way of pleasing others – I have to finish what’s on my plate so I don’t hurt my mom’s/grandma’s/aunty’s/friend’s feelings, and so on.

Then, there’s the physiological perspective too – is your body under stress because it’s not been getting the nourishment it needs to get you healthy and keep you there? This is your body’s prime prerogative and anything that pulls your body away from that creates stress.

Stress is that tension that exists between the point of happy equilibrium and where you’re at. And studies confirm what we already know – that stress can lead us firmly down the path of overeating.

So how do you reduce that tension or stress and align heart and head?

Long before your trip to any restaurant and as a matter of course…

  • Nourish yourself with food that’s rich in nutrients, by eating whole food as much as possible. This allows your body to relax, because chronic dieting puts it into starvation mode, and eating nutrient-dense food consistently and regularly helps your body to realize that it’s now getting the nutrients it needs to repair and to build.
  • Next, nourish yourself emotionally by learning to let in positive self-acknowledgment. Here’s one way to do this – start receiving compliments with grace. When someone says something nice about you, simply say, “Thank you,” and let it into every pore of your being. Don’t qualify – “Oh, thank you but….”. Don’t be dismissive. And graciously allow them the honour of having made and observation and voicing it to you. Don’t make them wrong with a, “Thank you, but…”

Then on the day of eating out:

  • Go ahead and look at the menu beforehand. Let yourself run through what your head thinks you should have, and what your heart says it’d like to have. Then pause, and ask your body what it would like to have too.
  • At the restaurant, order what will bring you the greatest balance of peace of mind. In fact, do this for every meal. You’ll automatically make a better food choice when you let go of judgment and come instead from a place of balance. When you first start to practice this, it might feel more as if it is a minimization of the feeling of angst or guilt. That’s OK. As time goes on, it will feel easier.
  • When your food arrives, feast first with your eyes – this is part of what is known as your cephalic digestion and starts the digestive processes in your body – it’s very healthy. (Get them to turn up the lights so you can see!)
  • Then take your time, eat and enjoy, without guilt or judgement. Taste and savour. And allow yourself to feel the greatest sense of satisfaction and nourishment than ever before.

The biochemistry of food and emotion is far greater than willpower, which explains why diets simply don’t work. So regardless of whether the lighting in the restaurant is bright or dim, jarring or romantic, the key to the battle is to nourish yourself first and foremost, each and every day, then when you’re eating, you don’t have to battle with guilt or angst. Instead you’ll get to savor every mouthful to the fullest and experience the deepest sense of satisfaction around food.


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Stress and overeating. (2011) Source: from Harvard Health Letter, Harvard Health Publications